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If you'd like to get out of a violent or abusive relationship, learn
how to heal and empower yourself and take control of your life... and if you want private self-help
information... then this might be the most important letter you'll ever read. Here's why.
My name is Cleon Athill. I am a
child-victim of domestic violence and abuse. I grew up in a family where my mother was
physically and emotionally abused by my father for decades.
I saw first hand what he did to her and how that experience negatively
affected her. And I know first hand - what it has done to my brothers, sisters and myself. For me, this was
domestic abuse up close and very personal.
Not only did my father abuse my mom, but he also abused us -
physically and emotionally. And it has left its mostly invisible, but deep marks of pain, hurt and
These domestic abuse problems seem to be pervasive in every community.
And the sad thing is that most of it is hidden... Generally, other people don't see our pain and
I have always wanted to spotlight family violence and domestic abuse.
This has been a personal mission. Over the last thirty years, I have researched and studied this devastating
problem which affects one in every four women in the world.
I have not only provided direct services to victims but I have become
an outspoken advocate for victims and an outspoken critic of a world which largely minimizes and perpetuates
the global problem of domestic abuse and violence.
You Can Move
From Hurt to Hope As You Heal!
As a counseling and social psychologist, I have first had to work on
my own healing. As I have walked on my personal journey, I have learned how to empower myself. I have
developed self-confidence and a strong belief in my own abilities. And, I have worked in the trenches with
adult and child victims of domestic and family violence, sexual abuse and child abuse. I have seen how women
and their children can move from desperate dependency to fulfilling self-determination, from hurting to
healing, and from quiet suffering to quiet satisfaction.
In this very painful arena of domestic abuse, I have experienced
for myself - what works and what doesn't. I have heard from my clients how they moved from hurt to hope as
they healed. I have listened as they told how they took charge of their lives... how they made their biggest
What was their decision? They decided to walk away; To move forward -
To move on - And, then they decided not only to walk away... but to stay away.
But walking away from domestic violence is not easy... There are many,
many reasons why women to stay: children, housing, money, family issues, religious
As part of my desire to touch and help victims from across cultures
and around the world, I wanted to find a way to help others who have suffered like my mom. I wanted to find a
way to give others hope. And to go beyond home to give them clear information on how they too can take
charge... just like my mom eventually did.
So I wrote a book which thoroughly examines Domestic Violence. This
book (now in eBook form) presents the key information, techniques and strategies that I have used not
only to heal myself but to help and empower others. It presents some of the things my mom had to learn the
hard way to free herself from the abuse. It presents info about the challenges we face as we move from
desperation to determination to making a firm no-going back decision.
It also presents strategies that have come from
the personal experiences of some of my friends, professional colleagues. clients and others with whom I have worked
over the last twelve years. It presents strategies on how battered women can move forward with their lives and free
themselves from abuse... how they can protect children... and how they can do so safely.
Now, I know that you may probably be skeptical
about how much this book can help you. It is normal and healthy to be cautious about spending your money -
Let me give you three (3) clear reasons why I
can back up what I claim about the benefits of reading this book.
one: Because the motivation for writing this
ebook came from the painful and sometimes tragic experiences of members of my family, and the life
stories of some of my courageous friends and clients. I understand that your situation and your experiences
may be different from mine. I also understand that your responses to your situation may be
Furthermore, I understand that you may be
hurting... I understand that you may desire a change... I understand that you may want help... I understand that
you may feel stuck...
I wrote this book because I saw all of these
things in my family and in myself. I understand because my mother has been there... my brothers and sisters have
been there... I have been there. Your experiences my be different and unique... but you will learn more than a
few strategies that can help you free yourself from the abuse.
two: Because this book is written from both a
local and an international perspective bringing together success strategies and solutions, ideas, resources
and information from around the world. I answer all your questions and give you all the details you need...
and much more.
three: I wrote this book not only from a
personal perspective, but also from the perspective of a clinician who has worked cross-culturally with women
and children who are victims of domestic violence. I have seen the hurt and pain on the faces and in
the eyes of others... I have heard the agony in their voices. And I have experienced the trauma in their
stories. I have also been uplifted by their courage to make a change, their tenacity to keep looking for
solutions, their determination to take action and their willingness to face the future. I have been touched
by their journeys from hurting to healing and then... many have turned to helping
others. A part of your journey has been my
My purpose now is a genuine and heartfelt
desire to help you heal your hurt. For you to take charge and empower yourself. For you to make a decision... and
make your move away from any abuse. Without hype... just presenting clear, concise, useable information and
Here are some facts that should concern
every person on the planet:
- The FBI reports that between 1976 and 1996, domestic violence claimed the
lives of more than four women each day in the United States.
- Every 9 seconds a woman is physically abused by her husband or intimate
- Around the world, at least one in every three women has been beaten, coerced
into sex or otherwise abused during her lifetime. Most often the abuser is a member of her own
- 7% of women suffer physical abuse by their partners, and 37% are verbally or
emotionally abused. In the year 2001, more than half a million American women (588,490 women)
were victims of nonfatal violence committed by an intimate partner.
- As many as 324,000 women each year
experience intimate partner violence and physical abuse during their
- It is estimated that 2 million to 4 million US women are assaulted and are
victims of physical abuse by a domestic partner every year.
- Twelve million women (25% of the female population) will experience physical
abuse in their lifetime. Up to 35% of women and 22% of men presenting to the emergency
department have experienced domestic violence.
- 42% of murdered women are killed by their intimate partners.
- Of those victimized by an intimate partner, 85% are women and 15% are men.
In other words, women are 5 to 8 times more likely than men to be victimized by an intimate
If your children have witnessed the violence in your home, and even if you are no
longer in an abusive relationship... here is why you should still be concerned:
- Each year, an estimated 3.3 million children witness domestic
- Children in homes where domestic violence occurs are victims of physical
abuse or are seriously neglected at a rate 1500% higher than the national average in the
- Children from violent homes have higher risks of drug/alcohol abuse and
- Children in homes where domestic violence occurs may experience cognitive or
language problems, developmental delay, stress-related physical ailments and hearing and speech
- Lenore Walker's 1984 study found that mothers were 8 times more likely to hurt their children when they
were being battered than when they were safe from violence.
The bottom line is that even if you are not as concerned about your own plight as
you could be... you should be very concerned about the clear danger to your children's present and
future physical, emotional and social wellbeing.
Here is a summary of the benefits
you receive in "Help For Domestic Violence!"
Free yourself now from relationships
where there is violence and physical or psychological abuse.
Learn what keeps people stuck in
violent and abusive relationships! Learn how to free yourself - for good!
Feel safer and more secure. Feel more
in control... Take charge and move on towards a better quality of life.
And what about your
children? Be more confident that they will
be safe... Take the steps outlined in this eBook.
When a good relationship begins to go bad... Know
exactly what you have to do... and how you have to do it... Learn all the steps you must take to
protect yourself and your children.
Learn how to make THE decision that may
save your life... even if it is
uncomfortable now to do so. Think of how life might positively different in your future... (This is a
key strategy - Learn how in the book)
Get a safety plan (elements of which you can personalize and
fit to your specific situation) with eight key strategies on how to free yourself. Whether you call
it domestic abuse, family violence, or spousal abuse... this is a difficult and potentially life
threatening problem... get the information you need.
You will know how to be safe during
most incidents involving family violence, how to be safe in your home, how to be safe when you are
preparing to leave and much more...
Learn how to move from being
victimized, to surviving and then to a thriving life.
Learn how to take care of your
emotional health and discover the critical benefits of therapy, and get three powerful therapeutic resources. Learn how to deal with the types of psychological trauma involved in spousal and
intimate partner abuse.
women stay in abusive and violent relationships. Understand the
steps you must take to get away now... stay away... and keep staying away... no matter
Get a thorough examination of domestic/family violence/abuse
statistics and realities.
Knowledge is power: You will understand
that you are not alone - and that it is not your fault! You will uncover and shatter the myths and
misinformation that have held you back in the past! Know the truth about healing
Receive detailed discussion of the
characteristics of an abuser.
If you have doubts about someone with whom you are building a relationship...
here is the information you need. If you are already in an abusive relationship, you will get the
confirmation that you didn't want: That you are involved in a relationship with a violent abuser - and that
your life may be in danger! You can get the facts. Start now.
Examine the database of International
resources: Hotlines, help-lines and shelters by country, state, counties and cities.
Feel informed! Know exactly where to call when you really need help. You will
have access to a directory that you can always consult!
Have you felt battered in your
relationship? Now, with this book you can begin the
journey of moving from feeling bitter to feeling much, much, much
Get three powerful hypnotic and
therapeutic short chapters - that you should now start to read every day for at least 7
Discover the keys
and important characteristics of healthy relationships. Learn what to do when your relationships
- Explore important domestic violence prevention facts and stats for
yourself, your family and friends! Get critical details that you need to know now.
- Learn what to look
for before your 'good' relationship goes
- Learn how to stop being the victim when your relationship goes
- Learn what to do, when to do it, and how to protect
- Learn how to take charge... empower yourself, move on and embrace
- Move from Hurt to Hope and then
Just added! Yes... this is an eBook - written as a PDF file... But we will also send you a
version of the book on a CD when you request it! When you purchase the eBook, you will get an email address
where you can request the CD.
Your cost is only $27.00 Buy
After you Get Help For Domestic Violence, you will immediately be taken to a page
where you can download your Book right to your computer.
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In this eBook you get all the information you want - in one place
- to help you free yourself from your current circumstances. You get the techniques and strategies that you need to
heal and empower yourself. You get to make the changes in your life that you deeply
And, you get access to all this in the privacy
of your own space, on your own computer. And with the CD - you access the information on ANY
COMPUTER... on your own time - anytime, anywhere. You learn and practice the strategies at your own pace
and at your convenience, in privacy... building your confidence... making decisions and executing your
plans... quietly and effectively... guaranteeing you success!
Order this eBook now because it will help start you on your way to personal freedom,
personal confidence & empowerment, and personal healing.
Yes, some people might need a therapist, coach
or mentor. And, no... although change can happen very quickly... it may not be visible overnight. But you can start
now to put your life in order. Make sure that you read the three
powerful NLP/Hypnotherapy therapeutic scripts on pages 231, 234, and 236!